I have a difficulties on public speeking. I've always been so nervous when I'm standing in front of audience. I've tried not to be nervous, but the more i try not to, the more i get nervous, and the more i lost my mind, i forgot all what i tried to talk about...
My friend said that it's only about confidence. Maybe i got something wrong with my confidence thing? Yeah, maybe. But i dont think thats the only matter about me...there's maybe something else that i should change....
what is it????
i'm gonna find it as soon as possible....>_@
1 comment:
my dear dear Lukiman, your autism now is official by making this blog! hahaha. but its good actually I support you! . .this learning passion you got. .I'm telling you. .
anyway..
i don't think its about your confidence, as you dare your self by making this blog i assume the case is that you got too much of it. haha!!kind of kidding!
to the main case, public speaking is never easy, you said that you're nervous, but hey, so does everyone! you shouldn't be worry as this skill is improved itself through times and experiences. The more you performed, the better. That's like the basic rule of overcoming fears, like, if you afraid of heights, hike a mountain!, or if you afraid of bugs,, well.. get a bug!!.. and what have you..
but there's one thing for sure to get a maximum performance in public speaking, and that is really knowing the subject you're presenting. you can feel the difference in tense when you teach kindergartens than teaching our finance class, right? thats because you knew that you got more than those little pants-wetters did, you can say that the famous L corporation is the biggest investment banking in the U.S to a kindergartens and they will believe just for the hell of it!.
so, knowing more boost your self confidence! in this case, learn more on the subject! and you'll be alright!
in the colloquium you will face shortly, prepare on whatever questions they might ask, and read more about the news, when you got all of these I'm sure you'll be Golden!!
and when it turns to me who got the nervousness, please say all of these right back to me. as i am a good adviser but not a very good doers. Hahaha.
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